Many Catholic Parishes do not allow outside musicians to perform any wedding ceremony music, although, exceptions may be made for special family members or close friends who desire to perform a single song. Typically, the Parish will offer a list of acceptable musicians for you to choose from. Also, additional rules may apply if your wedding date falls on one of the forty days of Lent.
A very popular Catholic wedding song
is "Ave Maria," which is “Hail Mary” prayer set to music and sung in
Latin. If the words of a song you like are all only available in Latin,
type them into a translation website so you will know what you will
be singing Catholic wedding music. The unity candle is not included
in the Rite of Marriage in the Catholic Church. If this is something
you want included on your special day, then consider having it at your
reception.
The lyrics of the songs chosen should
focus on the mystery of the sacrement of matrimony and becoming one
flesh in our Lord Jesus Christ, not just on silly romantic notions.
Catholics believe that it is God’s love for us that leads us to love
Him, and each other, in return. Now that’s romantic!